Ok, been what, 3 years? Since I wrote in this thing, about time I brought all and sundry up to date on the life (or lack thereof) of the Dilph, and what’s been keepin’ me amused
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She cuts, is bulimic, and is hooked on a wide assortment of drugs; he's a spineless idiot, who just happens to want to get into my girlfriend's pants. She's out of the picture now (long story) but he's still her best mate; there's only two others in the social circle, both of whom are uni mates of Kates', and they're pretty cool. But we see them mebbe once a month; we see him at least twice a week. And I have no droogs of my own, here...
I miss you so freaking much. Seriously. I mention you a lot and ask Whyrl when you're gonna come visit.
I have so many thoughts on the Kate stuff, but not one bit of it is any of my business, other than that I care about you, and some random stuff about dealing with anorexia myself at one point, and shite. I don't know, I feel bad for her, I feel worse for you, and I'm sorely tempted to kidnap you for a few weeks.
E-mail me, or message me sometime or something. Rosequoll@gmail.com or the same on jabber/gmail chat, or WereQuoll on AIM, or the standard 'Rose' on irc.furnet.org
good to hear from you - and hear that you're still alive - sorry to hear that you and kate have gone through so much shit - you're both amazing people and you deserve so much better.
Is kate getting any kind of help? I know that clinical help for these things can be expensive (breaks my budget) but there are some ways to get referrals through GP's into free counsilling programs - being treated as an outpatient - doing it myself right now (for depresssion not anorexia - but its all linked its all mind stuff).
If she is ready for help then get her some, and if she isn't ready then you need to try and help her to get to a point where she is.
but I'm sure you alrealdy know all this and I'm preaching to the choir here - so I'll shutup now and just offer you huggles and support and you know where to find me if you ever want to chat about anything.
Ditto this, but with the only caveat, until she's ready to mend, there's nothing in this god-damned world that will convince her. Maybe the threat of leaving may just be the hinge that tips things to the light side. Drastic, but it's gonna take something drastic to push her out of the comfort zone that she's drifted herself into.
It's funny how hard it can be to want to change. It's comfortable in one's little hole of misery. It isn't until you actually decide to start changing for the better that you realise that it wasn't as hard as you thought it would be.
Thought hard on that one, and it's still a possibility; if she drops much more I may have to. But we're working on it, she acknowledges it as a problem, and she hasn't lost anything for the last few weeks... just tryin' to get her to put a bit more back on, now.
See Dilph, the thing with wanting to stay on touch online is that I never SEE you online.
Still sounds like it's all about ups and downs. But rest assureed, I miss you. Ryan misses you. And 'vegas has most definitely not been the same without you.
We still have a spare room up here waiting for your kidnapping AND a brand new fridge as of tomorrow.
I am glad to hear that work is still kick ass!!! :) It is good that you get at least some social contact there and that you enjoy that third of your day. Sorry to hear about Kate - for what it's worth, give her a hug for me and see if there is a way you can get rid of that damned bike! That can't be helping on the weight front. (I realise that bikes do a lot of good and whatnot and this will be easier said than done - but good luck nonetheless)
You really gotta make these updates more regular, my friend...
Heh... therein lies my problem. I'd love to see you (and the rest of the crew) more often, but I just don't have much opportunity for online-ness any more; and what I do have, I usually use killing shit :)
And I may well use that couch offer... not anytime soon, but when I gert my next batch of holidays I think it'll be DroogTime.
allow me to faint at the presense on my friends page!
My condolences all around -- it sounds like they're more useful than congratulations. If you find yourself online, you know where to find me - taps, not FM at the moment.
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You omitted mentioning why you think badly of Kate's crew in there.
Yea. I must say that you had a bad run with jobs. Mostly just getting dropped out fo the blue. Complete suck.
Of course it was part time and you weren't going to get Severance would you.
Were gonna have to get you going and doing something a bit more.
Must be things that can be done to re organise the clutter your currently putting up with.
In anycase, Nice to hear from you.
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I have so many thoughts on the Kate stuff, but not one bit of it is any of my business, other than that I care about you, and some random stuff about dealing with anorexia myself at one point, and shite. I don't know, I feel bad for her, I feel worse for you, and I'm sorely tempted to kidnap you for a few weeks.
E-mail me, or message me sometime or something. Rosequoll@gmail.com or the same on jabber/gmail chat, or WereQuoll on AIM, or the standard 'Rose' on irc.furnet.org
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Is kate getting any kind of help? I know that clinical help for these things can be expensive (breaks my budget) but there are some ways to get referrals through GP's into free counsilling programs - being treated as an outpatient - doing it myself right now (for depresssion not anorexia - but its all linked its all mind stuff).
If she is ready for help then get her some, and if she isn't ready then you need to try and help her to get to a point where she is.
but I'm sure you alrealdy know all this and I'm preaching to the choir here - so I'll shutup now and just offer you huggles and support and you know where to find me if you ever want to chat about anything.
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Still sounds like it's all about ups and downs. But rest assureed, I miss you. Ryan misses you. And 'vegas has most definitely not been the same without you.
We still have a spare room up here waiting for your kidnapping AND a brand new fridge as of tomorrow.
I am glad to hear that work is still kick ass!!! :) It is good that you get at least some social contact there and that you enjoy that third of your day. Sorry to hear about Kate - for what it's worth, give her a hug for me and see if there is a way you can get rid of that damned bike! That can't be helping on the weight front. (I realise that bikes do a lot of good and whatnot and this will be easier said than done - but good luck nonetheless)
You really gotta make these updates more regular, my friend...
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And I may well use that couch offer... not anytime soon, but when I gert my next batch of holidays I think it'll be DroogTime.
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My condolences all around -- it sounds like they're more useful than congratulations. If you find yourself online, you know where to find me - taps, not FM at the moment.
I'd be happy to see you, if only to chat.
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