Comments | dmbmarc: What is Love? (Not Hadaway)

dmbmarc

What is Love? (Not Hadaway)

Nov 15, 2005 03:55

I think at one point I knew... is it possible to know something this intrinsic and lose it?

I think at one point I knew how to love... how to fall in love, how to be in love, how to make love... but have I forgotten? Can you forget? Can you knowSomeone taught me how to love. She also taught me how to fuck things up... well, she didn't teach me--I ( Read more... )

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girlfriday_rab November 15 2005, 13:35:13 UTC

Meh...

watercolorshine November 15 2005, 18:34:39 UTC

Wow, I think you just wrote the male version of what is going on in my head. Thanks for putting that into words. We're basically in the SAME mental state. So, it's nice to know I'm not alone.

Take care hun, I miss you!

Advice from an elder... shimmer2001km November 16 2005, 00:26:59 UTC

I know the tortures of love are a desparate mistress, but I just gotta say one thing: although I like all the pointers you gave for yourself, I have a feeling you may be focused too much on finding love. You gotta let love find you. I know that's hard advice to follow when you're lonely, but that's the way it works. One day you'll be walking along and love will slap you upside the head, and it will be the happiest day of your life. And as your senior, let me mention one more thing that I've learned. Like you, when I'm in love, I love passionately and deeply. But then when that love ends and a new one comes along, I realize that the thing before wasn't quite as deep as I thought it was. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't believe that there's just ONE perfect person for each of us...I think that you love and you learn, and each successive relationship builds on the last.

hada_hermosa November 16 2005, 01:41:53 UTC

just for your information no one kept you from playing guitar except for yourself. :)

i'm glad to know that you've started feeling again. it makes me happy to know that you are more. more than what is for you to figure out.

good luck. and i'm sorry.

hada_hermosa November 16 2005, 01:52:44 UTC

oh. and. maybe you come back to her because she knows how to be a good friend. maybe one day you'll see...

dmbmarc November 16 2005, 06:59:32 UTC

What is it that I will see? Not being mean... just interested in what you have to say.

And maybe its too hard for me to be your friend right now? Maybe I can't function if I have too much exposure... maybe you still do a lot more than you think?

hada_hermosa November 16 2005, 09:07:24 UTC

I don't know. But it hurts to have you thank me for being your friend one day and then not talk to me for weeks. I have a feeling you'll be saying it's too hard forever and that sucks. But what can you do?

fashionista3585 November 16 2005, 04:47:31 UTC

a comment from me would have taken up a TON of room, so instead, i just wrote my own entry about it, check it out, let me know what you think. Love Ya!!