The 'to be considered' section of cherishedelf's rules/guidelines brought me an idea for our next writing exercise. I wanted to come up with a few more specifics for those areas. I took the easier task of identifying positions/commands. Still I only came up with a few. Here they all are ... some old, some new.

Positions

• When told to "kneel" pet should ( Read more... )

Rules. Many d/s relationships have a list of rules (mostly for the sub, but sometimes including the dom). I don't have many rules for elf, but I do have guidelines. There are also shared rules, and hopes for the future ( Read more... )

The setting
I admit it, I had always wanted to play with two subs at the same time. I've seen it a few times and had bits of envy. cherishedelf and I were at a weekend long kink event recently. A cute sub who we'd met a previous party was there, and I was hoping for a chance to play with her. One night we briefly joined her and another dom in a little ( Read more... )

To elf ( Read more... )

I am, at this very moment, "non-consentually" collared ( Read more... )

elf: up.
me: mmm warm bed.
elf: up!
me: is that an order?
elf: no, now up.
me: *giggles*
elf: up! *tossing me off the bed*

I read the IE faqs trying to understand what it was all about and came up with a lot of nothing. Any attempt to set a framework for D/s has to do two things 1) explain why it's not abuse and 2) explain how it is different from vanilla relationships in essence and form.

Here is a humorous look at why I feel IE has failed to describe itself:
( read on )

I was inspired by my precious elf ( Read more... )

"It's hard to be a master. You must understand the rules very well indeed before you can break them. And you must learn - and use - the insight and judgment to decide where they apply with full force, and where it's right to break them."

"An essential part of mastery is focusing your effort and attention on what's important."
- Jackson, _Problem

As you probably know my cherishedelf is quite a good writer. So after intentionally getting herself in trouble (can't find reference, will edit later), I told her to write me "What do you like about having an experienced dom ( Read more... )