I started to date this amazing guy named Jasen. We get along great, has an amazing personality, great job, full of life. Jasen is poz. Im still going to date him and see where it goes but its going to be challenging.
I could probably deal with safe sex. But doesn't everyone want their SO to be healthy? And where would this end up?
I watched my brother die from a long term illness. I don't really want to experience that again, even though I might be better prepared having had to deal with it once already. And I don't want to die alone - if I have a choice, I want to die first so I'll always have them around.
Maybe all that sounds selfish, but I'm just trying to be honest - something I value, and that a situation like this needs. And sometimes it takes something like this to bring out the best in us - you've said some pretty nice things about him. Maybe you just need some time to figure things out...
but where in cali are ya? cause, i got offered a job in san diego area; im not sure as to where yet.
so, needless to say. i may be coming to your coast =)
and on the poz guy thing. My ex has it not; he got it from the boy after me. Anyways, i was torn when we both wanted to get back together. Its tough. Needless to say, i will not have intercourse with him anymore [and no, we're not together]
I pretty much only dated other poz guys by MY choice. Then I met Harry. It doesn't bother me that he's not poz or that I am. Safer sex has been my modus oporandi regardless of whom I'm with or what is done.
Love is stronger than a body part or health issue. I wont infect him or anyone and with a goal of living as long as possible, keeping all STD's out or our lives is paramount.
I guess it's hard for some people so I'm blessed to have Harry in my life and he in mine.
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I could probably deal with safe sex. But doesn't everyone want their SO to be healthy? And where would this end up?
I watched my brother die from a long term illness. I don't really want to experience that again, even though I might be better prepared having had to deal with it once already. And I don't want to die alone - if I have a choice, I want to die first so I'll always have them around.
Maybe all that sounds selfish, but I'm just trying to be honest - something I value, and that a situation like this needs. And sometimes it takes something like this to bring out the best in us - you've said some pretty nice things about him. Maybe you just need some time to figure things out...
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but where in cali are ya?
cause, i got offered a job in san diego area; im not sure as to where yet.
so, needless to say. i may be coming to your coast =)
and on the poz guy thing. My ex has it not; he got it from the boy after me. Anyways, i was torn when we both wanted to get back together. Its tough. Needless to say, i will not have intercourse with him anymore [and no, we're not together]
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Love is stronger than a body part or health issue.
I wont infect him or anyone and with a goal of living as long as possible, keeping all STD's out or our lives is paramount.
I guess it's hard for some people so I'm blessed to have Harry in my life and he in mine.
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