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[ethither]

Yesterday I went over my mom's house to celebrate her birthday.  I had already been feeling in a crappy mood because of lovely PMS, but I was determined to put it behind me since it was my mom's day.  Unfortunately though when I'm in that delicate of an emotional state, any little thing can set me off and oh did it.  My dad came over for dinner on

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[sweetanyanka]

*hug *

I'm sorry about the badly communicated joke, the guilt, and all of that. *hug * Parents are really good at guilt.

If you want the Pollyanna thought (regarding your dad and the money). He may have made the joke to your sister as a way of finding out if you would be offended by an offer of money or if you would take it as a gift to his daughter. Some people don't know how to show affection without gifts or money so they do that. I don't know your dad so I can't say that's what happened. But I know a lot of socially awkward people who make bad jokes as a way of trying to feel out if something they want to do will be accepted or not.

Whatever you do, good luck. You deserve everything good that is offered to you.

[ethither]

Thanks, it did work out. My dad and I talked, not really about all the other issues from the past, but things are resolved right now. He truly started making an effort this weekend and that's what I am grateful for.

And yes I think I am available on that night for dinner and I would definitely be interested in going!