Though I'm sure it wasn't intended this way, it did come off sounding a bit like a personal ad. What are you trying to say? Somehow I think that it's more than "sex rules" What is sex to you? Why does it rule? Is is stress relief? Is it a means to feel accepted/desirable? Does it make you feel in control? And what do you get from taking this information out of your bedroom and putting it out for all to read? I know it sounds like a lecture... but don't let the text fool you. I'm asking a bunch of questions here. I don't think you're right or wrong. I just don't understand where you are coming from. Of course you don't need to defend yourself (see "right/wrong" above) but just help out your friend who's a bit worried.
Woah Nellyfayded_mindJanuary 21 2006, 02:36:54 UTC
Ok, so maybe something got lost in the translation from my head to the web-page. No invites there--no personal ad, no desire to drag the river for partners. As a matter of fact, I believe I mentioned a bunch about taking sex seriously, even though it's fun, and feeling very committed and love and all that good stuff, which to me always implied a not first-come-first-serve attitude
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Let it suffice to say that I have a car and anyone who even tries to get in her pants while Chad is still her husband will be getting a late night visit from me with both some lube and a baseball bat. I will let your wicked imagination create the details, but seriously, back off or deal with a really big pissed off older brother.
Owning Your Sexualityjust_kristiJanuary 23 2006, 10:08:59 UTC
I want to congratulate you on owning your sexuality. It takes guts to admit to enjoying the things that make you feel good without regard to how the general public may feel about it. Your views make sense to me and I'm glad to hear them voiced.
Re: Owning Your Sexualitym2_iJanuary 23 2006, 21:53:41 UTC
Me Too - I wanna be in the club!!!
Just so everyone is clear - we rock. We should write a book about vaginas... oh wait that was already done - and done fabulously - monologue anyone?
If you haven't read it or seen it I have a copy and you can not live one second more before you read/watch it so I am willing to borrow it out. It's a must read in my opinion for the men as well. It will disturb you and make you smile in the same breath - it also has some very sad and interesting facts in it as well.
Maybe we can't change the world and make everyone accepting but maybe we can temper everything with tolerance at the very least.
Yeah Sex! -E
ps - Kim you know you are just teasing the boys with your declarations and thats not really fair to their very sensitive nature - delicate flowers that boys are in all. They have a hard time seeing empowerment vs. what they consider inforced voyeurism. Cut them a little slack and only show them your ankle next time... hehe... hehe... boys are silly.
Re: Owning Your Sexualityjust_kristiJanuary 24 2006, 03:05:17 UTC
m2_i is right (in general, but with her post script specifically)... While I didn't see your post as a personal ad - I though of it more as discussion starter - men do tend to be a little more sensitive about sex. If you mention that you like anything that could possible involve fluids, nudity, friction, or anything that might just possibly lead to these things, they fall all over themselves trying to hump your leg
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What is sex to you? Why does it rule? Is is stress relief? Is it a means to feel accepted/desirable? Does it make you feel in control? And what do you get from taking this information out of your bedroom and putting it out for all to read? I know it sounds like a lecture... but don't let the text fool you. I'm asking a bunch of questions here. I don't think you're right or wrong. I just don't understand where you are coming from.
Of course you don't need to defend yourself (see "right/wrong" above) but just help out your friend who's a bit worried.
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Here's to you!
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Let's hear it for a world without fear. Hip hip--hazah!
Love to all, anyway they like it.
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Just so everyone is clear - we rock. We should write a book about vaginas... oh wait that was already done - and done fabulously - monologue anyone?
If you haven't read it or seen it I have a copy and you can not live one second more before you read/watch it so I am willing to borrow it out. It's a must read in my opinion for the men as well. It will disturb you and make you smile in the same breath - it also has some very sad and interesting facts in it as well.
Maybe we can't change the world and make everyone accepting but maybe we can temper everything with tolerance at the very least.
Yeah Sex!
-E
ps - Kim you know you are just teasing the boys with your declarations and thats not really fair to their very sensitive nature - delicate flowers that boys are in all. They have a hard time seeing empowerment vs. what they consider inforced voyeurism. Cut them a little slack and only show them your ankle next time... hehe... hehe... boys are silly.
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