Friends Cut

[fleurdetragedie]

If you're reading this and not much else, then you were cut, and you may wonder why, though I gave FAIR enough warning yesterday. There is one reason alone that I cut you, and it has nothing to do with how much I like or dislike you. Some of you I've known for a long time, in person even, and some I barely know at all and have never met.

I do not

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[rhi_chan]

I'm going to be honest here, and that's because I respect you

[fleurdetragedie]

I don't remember seeing that post, and I'm sorry about commenting on it.

But she knows she stole it. I commented and TOLD her she stole it, she replied with

http://www.letspositivethinking.net/LJ/snarkyasscomment.jpg

And then deleted all of my comments, and banned me from commenting in her journal. That's pretty self explanatory to me.

And I think you're a pretty awesome person, I like quite a few people I cut, if only for the above reasons. And yes, you have left me encouraging comments and I've appreciaed them. If I don't reply to those, I'm not sure what else to say other than "thank you" which seems a little processed and cliche.

[sat]

So since I am reading this I got cut too? *is confused*

[kattwoman2]

I think it's if you can't see any more of her private entries and just this entry. You could try checking your "friends of" list to see. That's what I did b/c I was a little confused as well (lack of sleep due to yesterday's excitement :D).

[sat]

Thanks for that, cause I was horribly confused there.

[avian_firefly]

Honestly Amanda, I read almost all of your LJ posts and rarely read JJ's. I'm interested in what's going on in your life and LJ is the only why to stay caught up since you're so far away now. But if you think I'm a bad friend b/c I don't start drama over a post I didn't even know existed until you said something about it, then that's your opinion. I don't think I'm a bad friend for not getting up in her crawl. Do I think she's being a bitch about it, especially with the cmt she sent you? yes. But I'm not involved and I'm too busy right now to add to the drama. Anyways, once you calm down, I hope you will add me back, b/c I do care about what's going on in your life.

[fleurdetragedie]

It's not so much h er or me, it's that those people that were cut apparently didn't want to stand up for me and tell her that what she did was wrong. They basically stayed aside and were like "well, that sucks but it doesn't affect me, so whatever!" and that is not right, at all.

[avian_firefly]

well I highly doubt that every single person left on your list wandered over to her lj, and said "ps. that's wrong." I said I think it's wrong, but I also don't think 5,000 ppl need to tell her so either. Like I said I didn't even know about her post until you linked ot it. If I was cut simply b/c I'm on her LJ and didn't bitch at her, then fine. I just think it's silly to get rid of ppl actually interested in keeping up with your life b/c they don't wanna start extra drama. See you in a week.

[ms_monypeny]

I got cut because you're mad at someone and I had nothing to do with it? Been nice knowing you.

[antieden]

All right. We talked for a bit last night, but not where it mattered, any I guess. I have no place to tell you that it's wrong to have taken me off. Just as I don't think, in my opinion, you had a place to tell me that it's either her or me. That statement alone made me want to do it less

[fleurdetragedie]

I didn't really want so much for it to be her or me, and I guess I've been unclear about that. But very few people have bothered to say to her "What you've done is wrong," which is why I did this.

[antieden]

You've said that yesterday. But what you've done here is wrong, as well. People don't think fondly of being cast aside because someone they know, to whichever degree, has done wrong and they haven't stepped up to tell that person. Everyone in that category has lives that are completely separate from this issue, and have no reason to get involved when it's seriously only an issue between the two of you.

Just like I'm not going to abandon you so easily when you know I think this is overreacting.

[fleurdetragedie]

I added you back. Forgiveness?