I hate to be alone. I've never done alone well. I've spent too much time alone in my life, there are very few instances when being alone is what I crave ( Read more... )

Life has been interesting ... sometimes in the Chinese proverb sort of way. =o ( Read more... )

Left to largely work things out on my own, I find it is precious hard to find good, straightforward and balanced writing about polyamory. So, as I find things of value, I'm posting them here so I can find them again. FB being wholly useless to that end ( Read more... )

There is little in this world I find more important than companionship ... whether of friend or lover, family or coworker ... We are constantly in position to interact with others. If that can be pleasant and/or productive, life is made better for everyone involved ( Read more... )

I finished the handout today and sent it to my friend who will print it and bring it to the event ... she's also creating a CD with all the handouts for folks ( Read more... )

A friend, during a late-night, after-event conversation in a cabin in the VA woods, challenged me to do something other than heraldry. That was April ( Read more... )

I'm posting this here mostly because I want to be able to find it later and because I know many of you who read this are Poly or Poly friendly.

http://www.livescience.com/27125-5-myths-about-polyamory.html

So, in 12 days I will be 51. ... O.O ( Read more... )

One of the things that has bothered me greatly about social interaction in the last few years is the increased comfort with snark. I include myself in that group. I tried once ... I challenged myself to go a month without being snarky about anything or anyone ... and I didn't make it three days ( Read more... )

Yes, it's after 3 am and I'm still wide awake. Cannot sleep. There's been crap. Crap that is frustratingly, predictably regular and held beyond my ability to affect change ( Read more... )