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[ii1chuck8ii]

i am sick and tired of saying sorry even when i mean it, which i do. but hell if your so god damn mad at me how about you just forget me. just push all thought of me out of your head, and all knowledge of my existance out of your memory. pretend i wasnt there to hangout with you. pretend i never went out to eat with you or hungout with you at all

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[sinandsilence]

I hate apologizing to people all the time just so they'll be nice to me for a little while. I especially hate having to apologize for what I say about people if its what I really think. Yeah, I'm a bitch sometimes but I pretty much quit apologizing to people about it. So, I have to agree with you, saying sorry is over rated. I don't think people ever really mean "sorry I said that," usually its just "sorry you feel that way about what I said."

In a different topic...when are you coming back again?

[ii1chuck8ii]

i mgiht be comeing home febuary for 4 days depending on the snow though. but hopefully in febaury in like 2 weeks from now.

[exile7]

You people are funny. I agree with you that society has made apologies hollow. It is thrown around like crazy. But it is the same with the word "love" or "hate" or even getting sick of things. Drama is over rated. And this subject may not be intended for, but is pure drama. Haha. I am not complaining or questioning your methods. But I find it so amusing. If you love someone, truely love them, then it is more than alright to use the word "love" even though it has been perverted by society. When you truely feel, it will ring true and still stand right. The same with apologies. Don't apologize for what your not sorry about, that is retarded, that isn't what the word even means. Apologize for what you are sorry about. That is what the words very meaning is. And saying sorry isn't such a sin. You do it when you are actually sorry, and it is like 90% ment to spare the feelings of the person you hurt. Having pity and respect and homing up to the responcibility for the person you care enough about to spare their feelings. I know it sounds

[ii1chuck8ii]

well i say sorry all the time and do mean it. but people dont think i do or even say i dont. so it makes me think that saying sorry doesnt mean a thing.

[exile7]

Yeah. I understand. Apologizing doesn't mean anything to anyone unless it is something trivial, or unless you don't say it at all. It is one of those "unsung heros" but only for peoples relations. Haha. It is like saying "When you've done something right it will seem as though you haven't done anything at all." Even when you apologize to most people they will still be mad at you for whatever you may have done or said. But at the least you covered your bases and haven't done anything more wrong and you can also say you tried to fix it. So if they ever complain anymore you can say, "I said I was sorry, I tried to make it better. What the hell more do you want from me?" Haha.
Just because people don't much react to apologies, doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. If it is out there, then it proves that you care in some form or manor.