i'm thinking i might see a movie @ the Parkway in Oakland tonight, either I Am Legend @ 9:15 or Walk Hard @ 9:45. if anyone would like to meet me for either, call my cel. if i'm going alone i may just blow it off, but i'm done with therapy in SF @ 7pm, which gives me plenty of time to get there and maybe grab something to eat before.

okay, f-list, this is a tall order. i just noticed Bruce Springsteen is playing San Jose on Saturday April 5th. i was all "Dammit, i've still never seen him live" so i decided to try and buy a ticket. alas, all the available tix seem to be "behind the stage" which pretty much means i still wouldn't see him live. any great hope for better tix? or ( Read more... )

ok, i ran into a problem i often have when i try to plan things like this a few weeks in advance--i double scheduled. there's a spanking party i like to attend that's every 2nd sunday, and lo and behold, feb. 10th is a 2nd sunday. i'm thinking now i will still have dim sum, as it's early enough. i will unfortunately skip the De Young, and then if ( Read more... )

i'm turning 39 on February 10th, Sunday. defenestr8r made a plan to go to Ton Kiang on Geary Street for dim sum @ noon, then the DeYoung art museum in GG Park @ 2pm, with vague plans for some drinks after that. if any of my pals want in on this birthday plan, any part of it, please let me know. we're hoping to make a reservation for the dim sum, so ( Read more... )

i definitely got tired of this journal being all about my fucked, unfortunate circumstances. right before i got my new apartment i mentally turned a corner and realized "You are strong, and even though you have something in your brain that tells you that your way to handle things is almost always the "fucked up" way, you're actually handling all ( Read more... )

The good news is that i have a one-bedroom in Oakland that I can have my cats at, and move into later this week. I'm anxious that the 401K loan check I'm waiting for will not come in time to finalize this with the landlord on Tuesday as planned.  Also, my body hurts and I'm terminally exhausted, making me periodically think "How the hell are you ( Read more... )

hey, folks. my sweet pal heathen has already put something up on her journal, but i'm gonna post here and hope people spread the word. in an ideal world, i'd like a sublet that could be month-to-month, for 6 months to a year, where i could live with my 2 cats and they could be indoor/outdoor. but i'm painfully aware of how un-ideal this world is. ( Read more... )

the girlwith the most cake.i love him so much it just turns to rape. i fake it so real i am beyond fake. and someday you will ache like i ache.

hi folks, just a little update on the state of Pete. while the folks i'm staying with have been exceedingly generous and supportive, my 2 cats are stuck indoors there and they're not happy. like constant fighting and pissy shenanigans not happy. if it were just me, it'd probably work fine, but i need to work something out for them. it seems the ( Read more... )

hmmmm...i almost posted using another Stones song as a heading, Gimme Shelter. there are lots of sad songs about not having a home, who knew? i'm extremely emotional today, what with GBG and one of my spanking daddies moving away in the next week or 2. i can assure myself i'll make it through the Winter without them, but part of me isn't really