I’m laying here watching a movie called Stadt Land Fluss and it dawned on me how lifeless this apartment has become.  There likely won’t be any more big holiday parties or small get-togethers held here before I move.  Ryan is almost never here anymore, and I envy the fact that he has had the opportunity to let go of this place.  This apartment is ( Read more... )

I originally planned to have a private discussion with a friend regarding the place where Feminism and Joss Whedon's body of work, specifically his characters, intersect/overlap (or don't intersect/overlap as the case may be). We both thought it might be more interesting to have that discussion here where more people could comment on the topic. I'm ( Read more... )

I went to NYC last week.  While I was there I visited a small exhibit at the NY Public Library titled "1969: The Year of Gay Liberation". It was very moving for me. It was emotional for me in a way I had not expected. It sounds cliche, but it made me realize just how much I take for granted as a gay man in 2009.  It made me realize how far the gay ( Read more... )