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[judsonson]

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[tallulah]

Mind you, I'm looking at this from the other side of the mirror

[judsonson]

*nod* It's actually a funny spot. Being young. Knowing how little you know yet knowing what you think is right. And being befuddled because there's no security in "truth" at this point. And that's relativity.

It always goes back to Physics.

The relationships you (plural) are in now, were you going into them looking for marriage or did it, as I'm suspecting you mean, evolve into such a situation? Suspecting, I know, I know, is like assuming...

So does your, erm, "car" know that your plan is to wear him out? ;-)

I don't know much about maintenance, but I sure know that even cars have windows that need to be washed... *sheepish big boy grin*

[tallulah]

The windows are the most important parts. I'm sure my car has an inkling. We've discussed that the warranty is up and that some of his parts are wearing out. *smirks*

[tallulah]

As for the marriage...um...no. I was seeing someone when I met the boy. And the someone was, well...yeah, whole ntoher story. But..no. I was looking for a fling that ended up with an I love you in the shower one morning a week into it. 16 months later, I'm saying "I do" on a hot July day. That said, a lot of thought went into that whole decision, evolution or not. And a lot of thought went into the posibility of "I don't-ing" the "I do" in the first year of marriage, too. (Then we got a cat. That's a long story, too. )

This is interesting.

[philios]

Good point about the universal applicability of what it means to be young. And I would even venture to say that being uncertain of the future is not defined by any strictures of age. It all depends on so much

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[judsonson]

Hey, somehow I missed this...

But I must be off to work.

So I shall get back to it.

I'm glad we share a fondness for parenthesis.

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[philios]

indeed