I used to feel as your mom did about love. ^^* However, I came to realize that you can love someone to bits, with every tiny bit of your heart, and not have sex in the picture
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I think I know where your mom is coming from - I feel similar to that. I've been wholly in love before - it's a frightening thing. Actually, I did it twice. And this time with Brian, although I love him VERY much and can't imagine not having him, it's different. We both agree it's different. It's not that we're holding back, but it started differently, more like realizing we could be happy together than falling *boom* in love the way each of us had done before
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I've gotta say, thanks for putting this in perspective for me; mom just wasn't doing that. From where you are, I at least understand a bit better. Not sure I could ever imagine myself not utterly giving myself, but every relationship is different, and I guess what works for Evan and I won't work for everyone--I know I, for one, tend to be a bit obsessive and that probably works its way into the relationship, but as Evan feels and works the same way, I guess it works for us. I don't feel that it is a frightening thing, and perhaps that's the difference, but as we all know, differences are a good thing, for the most part. :)
more like realizing we could be happy together I have to agree, this is dead-on because it also fits my mothers' situation and perspective a bit more than mine.
Thanks for that bit of wisdom, it really helps. :)
*chuckle* I know you can do better than that, BK. =P And the fact that you actually read my journal scares me a bit. ;) Ah, well. The more readers the better I suppose.
My dear, you should know that I keep tabs on everyone from time to time. In this case, actually, it was just that Rena mentioned something you'd written, so I thought I'd see what it was, and then I felt I had to say something before all of your comments became sickeningly sweet.
You're very brave and open, and I think several of the people you've met online respect that. At least, I do. And I'm sure this is mirrored in your friends that surround you.
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*giggles and kisses her sweet koibito* ^_^
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/me is glad Janna enjoyed his reply to Jill's LJ... I really need to start writing long entries in my LJ again... ^_^;
~Chi
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more like realizing we could be happy together I have to agree, this is dead-on because it also fits my mothers' situation and perspective a bit more than mine.
Thanks for that bit of wisdom, it really helps. :)
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Dependency is weakness
Weakness is death
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You're very brave and open, and I think several of the people you've met online respect that. At least, I do. And I'm sure this is mirrored in your friends that surround you.
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