We too are pretty lumptastic. Basically we do nothing together-he sits in his office behind closed doors, on the computer. I sit in the living room on my computer. We are about 15 feet away from each other, but....
I remember how our intellects continued the physical attraction, but now all I hear about from him is the boat. "The boat this, the boat that. I just did this to the boat. I can't wait for the boat to be done so we can go fishing." Me neither, but just change that to YOU go fishing.
This sounds worse than it is. We have been married 22 years, so there still is a lot of history and interaction, just also a lot of down time.
I guess that I prefer to think of it as having enough seperate interests.
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it's a temporary rut: you'll adjust to adolescents and an empty nest just as you adjusted to babies. you'll be like teenagers again! oooh la la!
;) you, lisa, could never be boring.
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I like the sound of this.
I may have to refer to last night as an "isolated incident".
I still like the idea of kite flying, but I'm afraid of the gateway aspect...next thing you know I'll be playing ultimate frisbie!
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We too are pretty lumptastic. Basically we do nothing together-he sits in his office behind closed doors, on the computer. I sit in the living room on my computer. We are about 15 feet away from each other, but....
I remember how our intellects continued the physical attraction, but now all I hear about from him is the boat. "The boat this, the boat that. I just did this to the boat. I can't wait for the boat to be done so we can go fishing." Me neither, but just change that to YOU go fishing.
This sounds worse than it is. We have been married 22 years, so there still is a lot of history and interaction, just also a lot of down time.
I guess that I prefer to think of it as having enough seperate interests.
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