Trust me, I know exactly how you feel. It's crap and the only way you can deal with it is to become an asshole to people you already know deserve it, but give them more of a shitty attitude than actually needed.
Well, fopr my example, with AJ, Ben and Will, I need to be an asshole or they won't listen to me at all. This is because, they are assholes. I love them for it, but it's still fucking annoying. It's kind of a give what you recieve system. It doesn't always work, but it's worth a try, but I'm certainly not suggesting you just become a total asshole. Just that you become somewhat jerk-waddish to certain people. With your parents, just stand up for yourself.
"geoff, if you're going to have sex with blue, use a condom."
geoff, i am really sorry you get treated this way, but you're not a complete pussy. the thing of it is, you see what's going on in your life and how your parents have trained you, so you are on the right path. i know your parents are paying for school, so it is wise not to burn any bridges, but you can stick up for yourself without doing that. if, now that you see these problems, hen you don't start to act to fix them and better yourself and your quality of life.... well, then you will be considered a complete pussy. i.e. telling your parents, "no, i'm not drunk and if you guys don't believe/trust me, you can go buy a cheap alcohol test at the gas station and i will prove it." or telling them, "no, i am not going to have sex with blue, she has a significant other... besides, i could do better." just be blunt and honest, tell them once, then don't let them press the issue, walk away. and if your mom calls you an asshole, say "well, i am sorry you think that, but do don't
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I'm just finally starting to gain the ability to stand up for myself; it's difficult to change, I know, but it can happen.
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I was thinking tonight "God damn I love Josh... he is like me exactly... only Jewish"
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geoff, i am really sorry you get treated this way, but you're not a complete pussy. the thing of it is, you see what's going on in your life and how your parents have trained you, so you are on the right path. i know your parents are paying for school, so it is wise not to burn any bridges, but you can stick up for yourself without doing that. if, now that you see these problems, hen you don't start to act to fix them and better yourself and your quality of life.... well, then you will be considered a complete pussy.
i.e. telling your parents, "no, i'm not drunk and if you guys don't believe/trust me, you can go buy a cheap alcohol test at the gas station and i will prove it." or telling them, "no, i am not going to have sex with blue, she has a significant other... besides, i could do better." just be blunt and honest, tell them once, then don't let them press the issue, walk away. and if your mom calls you an asshole, say "well, i am sorry you think that, but do don't ( ... )
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