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There's a dude in a community I'm in that does NOTHING but try to chase women. Nothing wrong with seeking a sig other--unless you don't wanna do the Actual Work involved. On occasion, I've even snatched him off of couches, led him to Human Beings, introduced him and cued him to speak. Crickets.

I made a new friend in person recently that he's been ( Read more... )

In half an hour, the anniversary of The Service of My Divorce Papers begins. One year ago then, I was told Zilla wanted alimony and the house and blah blah et cetera. It was also the very last time Adult Midget spoke to me.

But Guess What? I just got home from a Thing. Invited to a seafood boil by an African woman younger than my kids. And the dude ( Read more... )

Friday night, we got hit with yet another snowstorm.  Not that I'd know...??!?!? Myng came over and we didn't crawl outta bed 'till my association plowed my street and driveway.

But this weekend, the low temps are all above freezing. By Tuesday, we're sposed to have shorts weather.  No, Really.  Shorts weather for Nebraska, not just here.

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When the people sworn to protect and serve record themselves whiffing drinks at pedestrians...?

And--of course--pretextual stops whenever they see Black People.

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There's a saying I've learned to say to me lately:

Your Actual Friends

Give an Actual Fuck

How You Actually Feel

In addition to the childhood communicative deficit I've worked hard to overcome (surprising, huh?), I'm not innately empathetic.  I wasn't wired to give half a shit how other people feel.  For me, it's an artificial construct.  An ( Read more... )