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look. photos.
Abbey made the coolest Necronomicon earings (yes, it's a full print-out of the text inside!) and my weeping angel tree topper. Not sure exactly where the photo of the two of us was taken, but it is circa 2004.
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Oh, good lord. I haven't logged in for so long that there were reminders that it was Abbey's birthday. lol. I am alive. And well. And busy living life. One of these days I'll get around to posting Abbey's amazing creations. Got to see her oh-so-briefly and had a wonderful time, despite being exhausted, sick, and needing to get back to the working ( Read more... ) -
Giving the devil his due.
This time of year is weird for me. Christmas and major life changes have intersected too many times in my life. And in my kids' lives. It was right around this time 4 years ago that I decided to leave my husband. It was right about this time 10 years ago that Tentmoot blew up. Those are just the major ones. Christmas and abuse should not go hand in ( Read more... ) -
How to stop being an abusive A**hole
This. So much THISAnd a few of my own thoughts ( Read more... ) -
So, this happened
.Abbey and I talked this morning about my post. She sent me this:
What I think of when I remember you apologizing for that knife thing:
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Owning up
I was reminded today that Andy said some things about me and I'd like to clear them up. I wish I could honestly say it's all lies. Some are flat-out lies, most are a twisting or misrepresentation - you know, truth a la Andy. You can read the full email here if you want. I do love that the only time I'm mentioned is when he needs another way to show ( Read more... ) -
consent
For the curious: I do NOT revoke consent. There was never consent given. That is the very definition of sexual assault. Taken from merriam-webster.com:
illegal sexual contact that usually involves force upon a person without consent or is inflicted upon a person who is incapable of giving consent (as because of age or physical or mental ( Read more... ) -
A song. Lyrics included.
So, this came up on pandora about a week and a half ago. I had no idea my last secret of that time period had been exposed. But of course, my mind went there:
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