i agree with you. i think that was a major problem in my last relationship. i was quite open about my feelings, but my partner wasn't, so it kinda sucked :(
i wish people could just easily talk about anything, it would make life a lot less complicated!
Agreed. In my past relationship, I was always really open with me feelings. Sometimes they got me in a lot of trouble or started a lot of fights, but a lot of the time I felt like if I kept in how I felt I would explode because I needed him to at least know how I felt.
But other than my past boyfriend, I have a really hard time talking to people in general. I don't feel comfortable around most people. It sort of sucks.
I'm never open and honest about my feelings in relationships. As someone with bipolar, I have my highs when I'm around people I like or love. (My downs when I'm alone or at home.) Well, anyway, my point is that when my mood is high up there, I fib... like, a lot. I can never be 100% honest with anyone.
I completely get your point. And I also can't stand people who are in relationships when they are 15, 16, 17, 18,... and think automatically its love. Just cuz they had a 6 month anniversary, or a 1 year anniversary. Some people truly are in love at a young age. But, not all of them are... and i think people need to take the relationship like it is and could be...not over-romanticize it. I hate to be a hypocrite, but i am 18 almost 19 and believe myself to be in complete love with my boyfriend of over 2 years. But the communication thing is a must. I can tell my boyfriend even the most grossest of stuff, or the most depressing. He may say eew. But afterwards... he says how cute i am for telling him. I can talk to him about POOP. And PERIODS. haha.
These people you think of that won't tell their significant other how they feel... will get a rude awakening somewhere along the line. They will find some way to open their eyes.
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i think that was a major problem in my last relationship. i was quite open about my feelings, but my partner wasn't, so it kinda sucked :(
i wish people could just easily talk about anything, it would make life a lot less complicated!
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But other than my past boyfriend, I have a really hard time talking to people in general. I don't feel comfortable around most people. It sort of sucks.
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I can never be 100% honest with anyone.
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These people you think of that won't tell their significant other how they feel... will get a rude awakening somewhere along the line. They will find some way to open their eyes.
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