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princessbunny

What to do?

Mar 21, 2010 16:34

I'm fine, baby's great, pregnancy progressing much better than last time. No bedrest yet, which is wonderful because I don't know how I could be on bedrest with an active little boy who doesn't nap and who sleeps 10 hours a night if I'm lucky ( Read more... )

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lackofgravitas March 21 2010, 22:23:51 UTC

I have NO idea, but I'm glad to see you here. :) It takes me about a million years to notice someone is MIA (which is ridiculous, given my small number of LJ friends) but I did miss you. And kept forgetting to ask the likes of Kate and Sara if they'd heard from you. Request to be part of your shallow 5 second world of Facebook is winging its way across the pond ...

princessbunny March 22 2010, 02:27:36 UTC

Got it :)

navyangel March 21 2010, 22:30:47 UTC

Could you go get it from her? I'm very confrontational so I would be as threatening and as evil as necessary to get it back. But that's me.

princessbunny March 22 2010, 02:28:03 UTC

She's 4 states away and I don't have a current address. I could easily send someone to her home if I knew where she lived now.

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princessbunny March 22 2010, 02:28:23 UTC

I would like to hope that too :(

sofamiliar March 21 2010, 22:41:15 UTC

Honestly, I would begin internet snooping and try to track her down. I don't know if that makes me stalkery or not, but I would be pissed.

But it is probably healthier to take cymraeg's advice about it, and know that although your mom's blanket is gone, what it represents is not. I don't know if I could take that advice, really, but... there aren't many other options.

That sucks so much, I'm really sorry. I would be flipping out.

princessbunny March 22 2010, 02:32:31 UTC

I guess the time for flipping out would have been 2 years ago when she'd had it for over a year, but I just tend to believe people, you know? She kept saying it was boxed up, she'd mail it next tuesday or 2 weeks from now or from her parents or whatever, and I'd believe her. I tend to think the best of people and obviously sometimes I'm very very wrong. But when she just cut me off entirely and started ignoring me...I guess I have to face the fact that she doesn't care about how I feel and is willing to just let me keep wondering. I don't understand what would motivate a person to treat someone like that, someone who (as far as I know) has always been kind to her, but ... I'm not her, obviously.

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princessbunny March 22 2010, 03:01:03 UTC

Thanks. It's just so hard to understand why someone would act like this.