Comments | purplerose824: today is spinnin'

purplerose824

today is spinnin'

May 26, 2005 12:10

So last night Eli and I had a tiff. An argument. And it wasn't to relieve tension or anything. It just happened. We were watching The Barker's on MTV. Its a reality show of Travis Barker from Blink 182 and his wife and kids. It basically a hardcore newlyweds. So Travis treats his wife respectfully, and he's lovey dovey with her. He holds ( Read more... )

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bodiggins May 26 2005, 12:44:00 UTC

Wow, I can TOTALLY relate to this post... Most of the arguments I get in with Loni happen randomly, and it sucks.

As for your "dilemma," let me just say that that's how guys get usually. We tend to get "lapsed/comfortable" in the relationship for the most part, and we forget to do the things we did to get you ladies to fall in love with us. Personally, I like the occasional reminder if I'm slipping, but at times it can be angrifying. Did he have a bad day or something?

purplerose824 May 26 2005, 13:24:27 UTC

Well that whole day he had been running errands with his family. But I never mentioned to him before that the romance was dying. This was the first time and he didn't appreciate it. He called me today to tell me he loves me. But just ok talk to you later, bye. Just so he knows I am still a little upset. We should've just watched The Simpsons like usual. LOL

purplerose824 May 26 2005, 15:25:03 UTC

Did u get the flowers for Loni on impulse? If so I love that!!! Don't ever stop doing that for her. Even when u are old and gray... you better keep the flower thing alive!! :)

hollynycole May 26 2005, 15:16:15 UTC

Sounds to me like you didnt' really tell him why you were mad. You just held it in, and punished him for something he may not have known how to fix... I mean, I don't know, did you tell him straight out that the romance is dying,a nd you'd like to rekindle the spark? Or did you just say, "I wish you were more like Travis." and after he got mad, you just went into the other room, without talking it out? I am not sure Rosa... I know that you guys love each other, and in my opinion, you're In Love, you just want it to be shown a little more ( ... )

purplerose824 May 26 2005, 15:21:00 UTC

LOL. You crack me up. Ummm...I did the 2nd thing. Just got mad and left. You know me too well. LOL. yea i guess i have to work on it too. 50/50 right?

hollynycole May 26 2005, 15:45:43 UTC

If you don't tell him what the problem is, he can't fix it. =) Give him a chance to fix it, before you just give up on your relationship. I luv ya hun!! =)