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On rape and men
Sinboy posted this link yesterday. I'm reposting it here because even though a number of you also read him, a number of you don't, and I feel that everyone I know should read this. Read the comments too ( Read more... ) -
Happy Anniversary
To my beloved _counterculture. Three years since we said our vows before our dieties, our families, and our community. Three years since we tied our hands together and pledged to walk together until we decided it was time to part ( Read more... ) -
App Recommendations
The acquisition of a new phone seems to have rendered me iPhone endowed. I know a number of you have iPhones also. Got recommendations for apps for me?
Please feel free to leave a comment with suggestions, why you love it, what you use it for, etc.
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Placeholder catchup: bottoming vs. submission
Given the nature of one of my relationships, I've been giving quite a bit of thought lately to the concept of bottoming vs. submission. Why do I balk at being called a submissive, even when I'm clearly not the top in a scene? I've caught myself (and others) using these two words interchangeably, and yet I don't feel that they are interchangeable ( Read more... ) -
Five Things, part 1 - allanh
Saw this originally in allanh's LJ. If you wish, comment on this post and I will give you 5 subjects/things I associate you with and/or comment with five things you associate with me and I'll expound upon them in my journal. Then post this in your LJ and elaborate on the subjects given. ( Paganism, Polyamory, Pop Culture, Plays, and Peter ) -
Placeholder post
Real post coming soon, honest. Things rolling around my head what need posting about:
* How things change: my relationship with _counterculture and ways it's changed, I've changed, in the last few years.
* Thoughts about bottoming vs. submission
* 5 things meme answers from allanh and possibly labelleizzy* My VA boy, how I'd love for him to be Here Right Nao Please, and what ( Read more... ) -
Laptop repair?
I would swear that sometime within the last month or two,someone on my flist mentioned having their computer repaired by someone local and fabulous. I can't remember who posted it, and I can't seem to find the post ( Read more... ) -
Update on Tif
This is Peter, posting from Tif's lj. Tifaine has come through surgery just fine this afternoon. The procedure was completed as scheduled. The gall bladder was a little worse off than the surgeon had expected, but it did not complicate the surgery. Tif was asked to stay overnight. She had hoped to come home. I will be picking her up early ( Read more... ) -
It won't be long now...
I leave in about 40 minutes for surgery. Last week mostly doesn't exist for me - it's blurry and fuzzy and hazy ( Read more... ) -
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Much thanks to Peter for posting what was going on with me and many thanks to all of you who sent well wishes ( Read more... )