Dear Dating Prospect,

Calling me three times in two days + email = the surest way to make sure I never call you again.  You are freaking me out.  This is not a drill.  I already regret agreeing to meet and giving you my number.  In fact, I think it's a record.

Congratulations, and welcome to the "NO" pile.

The following three posts are the notes taken at the TNGC SEDS Education Meeting "How to Find A Dom" by Wilson held on 5-Jan-2008.  It wouldn't fit in one LJ post so I had to break it up.  Please feel free to comment with additional information or corrections.   Also, feel free to friend me and I'll friend you back.  :)

Part 1 of 3:  Where to Meet ( Read more... )

Part 2 of 3: Making Connections

1)      How Do We Meet People in this Lifestyle?

a)      Through friends

b)      Make one friend, can then meet three more of theirs and extend your circle

c)      Networking is non-linear. Cast a wide net

d)      For female subs, it’s pretty easy to meet a male Dom.  Show up.  People will definitely talk to you, be ( Read more... )

Part 3 of 3: Online Resources for Meeting People

1)      Online Resources for Meeting People

a)      Great way to meet people, if you are also willing to meet those people in person. It’s a good idea to have a presence both offline and online.

b)      When you meet people at clubs or events, they very well may ask you what your screenname is on ( Read more... )

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