The Elephant in the Room / Another Defriending Amnesty Post

[sheswatching]

I know I did this a week before the new year but I'm just putting it out there that if we're not that close and you're worried about awkwardness, please, feel free to defriend me. I'm not gonna say it won't hurt, 'cause it will (unless we seriously never speak) and my feelings are so fucking wrought right now. But we all have to do fandom our own

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[sheswatching]

nooooooooooooo. I always love when people post their opinions on things. Might be too late now, but I love knowing others' opinions on fannish spaces as open dialogue is how we learn and grow.

Thanks for replying <3

[chosenfire28]

*hugs hard*

I hate that people are defriending you over this. I just, don't understand how anyone could honestly defriend you over something like modding an anon meme. For me defriending should be about not being friends anymore.

I've had some bad anon meme experiences, but it happens when you go looking for it. I will defend right with you the right for anon memes to exist. They aren't always the nicest place, some shitty things get said, but at the end of the day it's an amazing place for people to express any opinion they want to and not feel like they will be judged for it.

I really enjoy being friends with you and am not going anywhere anytime soon <3

[sheswatching]

Hah, if only it was that people were defriending me. One person defriended me out of the blue and it sucked, but everyone who is close to me is getting defriended by a few others, sometimes without reason, other times it's easy enough to draw conclusions which is just ridiculous and unfair to them. They shouldn't have to pick friends, and I don't think I made that clear enough in my post, but ah well, I wasn't the one who drew the lines in the sand.

[k_nightfox]

I don't hold anyone's chosen style of participation in any fandom against them. I like you for you, I'll be sticking around :D

[sheswatching]

:D You're my kinda flister, bb! :D <3333

[kylezy]

I'm sorry Reasons and Events are getting you down <3

Here is a gif of Bradley's thighs, just because.

[sheswatching]

Bradley's thighs should be the answer to all of life's problems. ty *smishes*

[anonymous]

I'm not on your friend's list but I love you Mom and have never hated on you! :D
Thanks for keeping m_m the way it is.

As an addon, please, it's all good if you don't want to see what goes on there. But don't go there on the sly and then complain about it, if you're unhappy with the negativeness in the first place.

*firmly in heifer couch*

[sheswatching]

Aww, thanks, nonnie! ♥

And I'll assume the second part of that isn't directed at me, since I couldn't be on mm "on the sly" if I tried!

[anonymous]

No, not at you of course!

♥