I'm Struggling...

[smfkrstolmyname]

...with the decision I made to keep this house. On one hand, I know it would be best for me financially in the long run, and to have the security of my home while the biggest aspect of my life changes will probably end up being the greatest preserver of my sanity. I can't even begin to deal with the idea of moving right now, and the thought of

Comments

[atindall]

I say sell it, and get the cash, but in so doing accept the fact that you might not own a home in Washington state again for a LONG time. I think there's a lot to be said for being "mobile" during transitional phases of one's life, but probably other people would say that it's a good idea to have something holding you down, and on general principle, responsibility is always good. That being said, I have to say that if in the event you wanted to live with another partner someday, it might be rather hard to do in the home you and Miles shared...BUT, people manage to do that all the time, right? I mean, Steve and Donna live together in the house Steve and my mom lived in, and Lori (sp?) and your dad lived in the Kirkland house together, no prob...so maybe it's not as bad as I think it would be. :) I am SUCH a pessimist, you know. I guess it just depends on the relationship - for a sensitive breakup, it might be hard. For one that was cleaner and not as difficult, maybe not so bad. I dunno

[hematomaalice]

I know nothing about home ownership, but my time briefly (but recently experienced) as a vagabond/couch surfer I suggest selling your house. I would do it for the financial and emotional outcome. Plus, you are currently living in a place that has a hefty amount of mileage from you and the city. It would be different if we had a better mass transit system, but if I were you I'd sell and rent in the city

[k_sav]

What's the situation with the equity in the home? I strongly suggest you keep it. I know roommates suck, but it is possible to find someone that works. We found someone great, and I know tons of people that have also. Its like going backwards. If you need some more help from someone with experience in the mtg industry, and a financial background you can always call me.

[smfkrstolmyname]

Hey, I'd love to call and talk to you about this tonight and your opinion about all of the details, if you don't mind. I thought I'd made up my mind, but I'm still really torn about it.