Comments | starsxscars: the ins and outs of our youth.

starsxscars

the ins and outs of our youth.

Jan 17, 2009 12:53

i may have finally discovered the answer to the question of why i've been single for three and a half years. besides the fact that i go for the wrong guys sometimes ( Read more... )

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musicmandom January 17 2009, 18:50:56 UTC

I used to not really like kids, i had my cousins 2 kids live with us for a while and they were babies and i had to help raise them for 8 months and it was a trip, ups and downs...but think of it. You have an outstanding personality and your looks arent bad at all! Wouldnt you want to spread your traits to someone, someone to live after you and on and on...? To me I want to do that and keep my blood and name going on as long as it can go.

You have always been an independent person, but you seem like a great friend and you have an outstanding personality and I seriously can not believe there is no guy out there that hasnt taken you yet. I should move to the east coast :P

and yeah, i'm back on LJ!

ammre January 17 2009, 22:47:09 UTC

yeahhh... being 5'10" and 300 lbs and kinda outspoken, I know exactly what you mean.

zmetallica January 18 2009, 00:38:38 UTC

this is true for people who follow standard social things. You do not, find someone similar to you. in the end we are all looking for a balance, which is why the whole sub/dom stuff happens ( ... )

starwoodinhell January 18 2009, 05:16:28 UTC

I'm not sure which is worse: a relationship where one person is clearly dominating the other, or one where there are two dominant personalities clashing against each other at all times. I think with the latter, the two would've been better off being friends but have ended up together and are often miserable. It's very hard to have balance.

many possibilities! anonymous January 18 2009, 21:57:50 UTC

Men definitely feel intimidated by strong women. It's true, especially if you've been told you're intimidating, which is kind of a backhanded compliment. However, I think it just means that when you do find a guy, he's going to be on your level or he's going to want to be in a relationship with a girl who "wears the pants". It's definitely possible to date someone who is on your level, where you're not the dominant one, or you can switch roles. I like that especially, being able to rotate being the caregiver and being "protected". It is possible ( ... )