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thought_spot

More Dream Logs

Mar 16, 2005 21:38

Since nobody replied to the last post, and I wasn't surprised, I figure I'll keep posting these. It seems to be hard for people to put the smallest, more menial of comments in my journal, where it's quite easy for them to do the same thing in other people's journals. Oh well, go FIG.

( I'm a Douche Bag )

Comments 4

chicketa March 17 2005, 07:24:43 UTC

I read the first paragraph and I must say Graham that hurts. I don't know what you expect people to do when you give them dreams to respond to. I recall I responded to some of your other posts because you were feeling down. It seems that was a complete waste of time. When was the last time you posted in my livejournal?

Don't crap on others when you haven't done what you are preaching about.

thought_spot March 17 2005, 14:38:07 UTC

And let me see... the last time you POSTED something was... February 11th? Doesn't really give me a lot to reply to latley, now does it? And I HAVE replied to many of your comments that you've left me in my livejournal.

Lately a lot of people here have taken what I've said and applied it to themselves when it's actually been one or two other very specific people that I'm talking about. None of that had anything to do with you, and while I know that there's no way of you knowing that, I'm surprised you felt like thinking that it included you.

It's almost like people are just looking for something I say that gives them a chance to downtalk me, or tell me that I'm being hypocritical, or too whiny, or whatever. Obviously that's not what's happening, but I just see it happening a bit lately. Just like Jess and especially Marika, I'm so utterly baffled as to why you, of all people, would have replied to that in the way that you did. Sorry if you thought it was about you or took it personally, but it wasn't, and you shouldn't have.

chicketa March 17 2005, 15:59:19 UTC

I'm not mad. I was hurt. I couldn't believe you would write something so general like that and expect people to know it applies to only a few people. The internet is such a horrible way of communication and very easily taken out of context because there is no way to express tone or facial expression no matter how hard we try.

I just wanted you to realize that I do comment, I do call when I know you are in town and I do want to hang out with you. I'm tired of being invisible, and when something general like that is posted I think me, because I am invisible.

thought_spot March 17 2005, 17:57:10 UTC

You should know that you're not invisible to me. :)