Comments | threnodyeris: butterfly wings

threnodyeris

butterfly wings

Jul 24, 2009 02:10

My mother's always been a very open person. Not just with me and my sister, but she'd tell the world her life story if they stuck around to hear it. I preface with that, because everybody makes judgments. People generally don't hold themselves to the same standards that they hold others to. That is also true with me. I hold myself to standards ( Read more... )

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ronin_lethe July 24 2009, 16:29:30 UTC

your feelings aren't little. they are yours, and so they matter.

feeling things like it's my damn job threnodyeris July 24 2009, 23:18:22 UTC

MASSIVE!

MASSIVE BLACK FEELINGS!

POPPIN OUT MY FEELERS!

WHOAAAAA, FEEEEEEEELINGS!

cheshirrrecat July 27 2009, 18:15:44 UTC

"feeling things like its my damn job"

hahaha--i'd forgotten that :} such a Brilliant thought :):)

kat928 July 27 2009, 08:54:25 UTC

i know the feeling of being divorced. however i also know that i might not be with the woderful person i'm with now if i hadn't gone through with my first marriage. you are only human. i know about how we can be cruel to one another sometimes unintended. i have seen how one action or inaction can affect so many for years to come. it is a scary thought but it is so true. i don't know you personally but from what i've read you seem to be better off for marrying you new wife. we have to tread through the muck to get to our goal. i wish i had more people like you in my life.

cheshirrrecat July 27 2009, 18:14:03 UTC

butterfly wings, indeed. thoughts/realities like the ones youre sharing here always give me pause. all too often we take for granted how amazingly intricate and Connected Life is--how tiny the rivulets and channels can be that lead from and connect one person or place or happening to the next. and how Amazing it is that we are all where we are ( ... )