Comments | whipslave20: A theory on sub fatigue

whipslave20

A theory on sub fatigue

Apr 11, 2010 22:13

The thought occurred to me this week that my fatigue with the sub label has something to do with my own progression and the dynamic between the dommes I know and myself ( Read more... )

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Mitzi agrees ... anonymous April 12 2010, 01:39:49 UTC

A hearty hooray for anti-snivel. It would be great if people did value their partners and play-friends, and care for them, no matter what the dynamic or role.

Re: Mitzi agrees ... whipslave20 April 12 2010, 12:31:23 UTC

If nothing else, the snivel is annoying.

mistress_jadis April 19 2010, 01:39:11 UTC

As I've often said..why on earth would anyone want an "worthless" sub?...but to each their own I guess.

the_engel April 20 2010, 11:56:53 UTC

So agree with that. If a sub has no value in themselves why the hell would I want them.

whipslave20 April 20 2010, 13:34:27 UTC

I wonder if I'm getting oversensitive to these kind of things. Anything that looks like it might question the worth of a subbies I seem to assume is a slight on my kind.

mistress_jadis April 26 2010, 05:26:41 UTC

Hi Whipslave20,

I want to say that I appreciate your commentary. Although you have your own life and I do as well, I feel like I am a couple months behind you in some of the experiences you have had.

I have found myself wrestling with many of the same issues you have had to deal with such as polyamorous relationships with a Domme and my views of the sniveling "sub" phenomenon.

I found myself noddding in agreement on your post about serving others at the tea ceremony.

There isn't a grand point to this post, just that I hope you keep blogging and even though you are Australia, you are not the only man dealing with these issues.

-Dave

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