Comments | wither: baby chicks are slow clapping while they viciously lambaste on livejournal

wither

baby chicks are slow clapping while they viciously lambaste on livejournal

Jun 20, 2029 11:41

MEMORIAL EDIT A WHOLE YEAR LATER, JUNE 24TH 2011 AS OPPOSED TO JUNE 20TH 2010 WHEN THIS WAS ORIGINALLY WRITTEN!!!!!!!!!!

RIP my thread on the anon meme

you were so young

END MEMORIAL EDIT A WHOLE YEAR LATER, JUNE 24TH 2011 AS OPPOSED TO JUNE 20TH 2010 WHEN THIS WAS ORIGINALLY WRITTEN!!!!!!!!!!

( some drama about sarah/annwyd that is old and probably deserves to be cut also seeing as it's like from 2009 )

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apology June 20 2010, 16:54:07 UTC

I TOTALLY know what you mean. I'm 24 & I still live with my mom ( actually I have had several offers for me to move out, but I refuse to leave my mom's side ) & I go to college. I'm actually looking for a job now, too, but it's been hard. & I keep trucking on. I keep moving forward. Sometimes things set me back but I overcome them & come out stronger.

So when I see someone ( & I have a specific person in mind too ) let their mental illness defeat them, I get annoyed. Because here I am trying my best even though I sometimes feel like a half a person & all this person is doing is staying at home, playing online & doing nothing. She's not even trying to find a job. She's just wallowing & I just get all GET UP & DO SOMETHING. Stop complaining. Just get up & DO SOMETHING.

wither June 20 2010, 20:38:21 UTC

It drives me nuts. :( Also, dude, you are totally 100% justified in staying with your mom. Your mom is not well. I think you'll be healthier and happier when you're out of her house, but... right now, I think it's best for your own sake and your own conscience that you're with your mom. You would feel so awful if you weren't there for her and something happened re: what she's going through. I wouldn't even dream of criticizing you for that. You are actually doing your mom a favour ( ... )

apology June 20 2010, 20:46:35 UTC

Yeah, I just. Can't leave her, you know? It's not in me to leave her when she needs me so much. Especially since my brother isn't really reliable either.

. . . lol that's mature of her. But like I don't blame you for how you feel. I mean, like, I have the same problem with this girl too. She hates being told the same thing. She just closes up or filters you out or she flat out ignores you if you try to bring them up.

apology June 21 2010, 01:54:40 UTC

Erin, I just read through your comments & I love you with all of me.

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wither June 20 2010, 20:40:07 UTC

flk;gh yeah..... you don't really do ANYTHING... when you're just sitting on your ass at your parents.....

i'm waiting for ppl to jump in and be like YOU USED TO BE LIKE THAT TOO HOW ARE YOU GOING TO CRITICIZE

yes, yes... notice the use of past tense...

rosemary June 20 2010, 19:30:46 UTC

who might this be about

wither June 20 2010, 19:36:24 UTC

allow me to link you

http://annwyd.livejournal.com/701291.html?thread=4674155#t4674155

wither June 20 2010, 19:36:58 UTC

i usually don't actually directly link in my LJ but she actually banned me from her journal when i commented at her so i think she deserves the attention.

wither June 20 2010, 20:02:39 UTC

oh how sad it appears she has flocked her post

too bad i had it open

http://hitachiin.com/temp/annwydpost.png

here you can read it this way. i can't say i feel bad since she had it public to begin with.

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halfspell June 20 2010, 21:37:11 UTC

Yes, well, stuff like that is why I go to a shrink. Most insurance covers it these days. You can *actually* do something about it. Oi. Sorry for your rage, though!

wither June 20 2010, 21:45:03 UTC

Ugh, it was totally my fault, so it's okay. I've calmed down since then and realized it was an overreaction.

This girl's problem though is she can't hold a job bc she "has problems" and she can't go to college bc she "has problems" and she complains about her parents but makes no move at going forward in her life and is also 24. It is hard to be on your parent's insurance when you aren't a full time college student.

The fun part is she isn't even diagnosed with any of these problems she claims she has and never has been. She hasn't even seen anybody to diagnose her. This is another case of those friends where I've gotta be happier they weeded themselves out.

I thought it was cute she was like "YOU ARE TOXIC AND TERRIBLE TO PEOPLE SO I'M NOT EVEN GOING TO FIGHT YOUR DISAGREEMENT AND I'M GOING TO DISMISS YOUR OPINION AS WORTHLESS" though, and acted like I haven't changed in 3 years.

Funny, that... I thought I made up with everybody except the people who didn't deserve it...?

halfspell June 20 2010, 21:57:39 UTC

o_O Wait, you're kidding. She won't go and SEE a doctor? They'll treat her! What the hell.

I like people like that. They make me feel warm and secure in the knowledge that I am doing awesome. People like that is also why I don't look back and the others who I've either been booted out of their lives or booted them out of my life.

brecho June 21 2010, 00:41:20 UTC

She has gone to see a doctor, she has one. She's been officially diagnosed for several issues. She had a shrink who liked to pull out lots of terrible bullshit. Shrinks are not automatically perfect.

I don't think you should look at someone you don't even know to think about how ~*~awesome~*~ you are.

I'm only here because I dislike that wither is lying about her and causing her stress

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allow me to creep bellanche June 20 2010, 23:28:03 UTC

oh wow this wasnt who i expected at all! :O i was expecting meg (though, she does do something, doesn't she? i remember her having a job) or that one girl who pretended her cat was dead in a fire--whatever her name was.

but really, i'm not surprised. it's not like sarah really wants to do anything with her life either other than sit on her ass and complain.

oh of course!! wither June 20 2010, 23:39:37 UTC

meg actually cleaned up her life really well and became a respectable person! she and i talk, but rarely on the internet bc she spends time with her husband now and a fair amt of time at work. i mostly just text her. i believe she also has her own apartment with her husband again and all is really going well for her. :') i'm happy her life is not a sad spiral like it used to be.

she was really depressed and stressed out during the time we originally knew her, so it was a weak point in her life. she is a different lady now. i forgive her for ditching all of us bc that was what she had to do in order to turn her life around.

sarah just wants a job writing ship manifestos

seriously the only damn thing that has changed about her is the fandom she's writing about

bellanche June 20 2010, 23:47:09 UTC

oh thats good to hear :V i always like hearing stories like that and i hope she keeps doing well! honestly, i don't even remember what she did except for jean/amanda getting all pissed off

wither June 20 2010, 23:55:41 UTC

well, amanda (and i) got mad that meg ditched all of us and never came back. she also got mad that meg was "acting all weird" and she was, and meg annoyed the shit out of me during that period, too -- but we eventually hassled her so badly she left bc she couldn't handle it anymore. i can respect that reason for disliking meg (and i confronted her about it and talked about all my personal issues with her and we resolved them) but i feel like amanda has no reason anymore

i mean, amanda basically ditched everyone she was friends with! so many people are worried about her and have no idea she's juuuuuuust fine, hanging out in a different corner of the internet, hanging out with ppl who have nothing to do with me.