who knew i was so articulate?

[workinclaslass]

eastendBOOTgirl: good people like us are minorities...and unfortunatly, LIFE doesn't have affimative action plans to help us get ahead

and just a question...does over 2 weeks of no communication with your signifiCUNT other mean that you're no longer with that person?...give me your take on that

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[incitor]

would depend on the circumstances wouldn't it?

[workinclaslass]

well i've been calling, leaving messages, texting..i know that he has a prepaid cell so he runs out of minutes, but anyone can find 35 cents in a fucking couch cushion to make a god damned phone call

[incitor]

in such a case there are two likely reasons that i see. severe depression, or it's pretty much over.

[workinclaslass]

i think it's both

[streamsofwhisky]

Doesn't sound like things are going to work out in my opinion. Either that or the fucker likes pain and is welcoming the severe ass beating you should give him for not calling. And you're right, pay phones work just as well as any other phones.

[workinclaslass]

i'm just so tired of trying, you know? i can't even find the strength to kick his ass let alone try to make it work anymore

[streamsofwhisky]

I'm sorry sweetie. That really sucks, relationships should be equal not some stupid guy draining you emotionally. I'll come down there and rough him up for you, that way you can rest. Deal?

[workinclaslass]

oh girl your got yourself a deal!

[lovelybones]

Well, if he does call and think you're back together, that's probably in the vein of the STUPIDEST thing I've ever heard. Why can't people just say, "I'm having a rough time, I'm not feeling well about things, can we talk about this when I'm ready?" or "I'm just not into this, I'm sorry." There's no way to avoid the hurt no matter what, but at least be a fucking man instead of avoiding the closure on someone else's end. Selfish, selfish, selfish.

[workinclaslass]

i agree :(

[markes]

i related alot to what you wrote so i felt i had to comment ....... tonight i made the phone call after a month of not having some kind of "closure" .... and altho to some extent i can understand what would keep someone from out right rejecting the person they've spent time telling they love .......after sitting in the same shoes you've just described i definatlly agree with your comments '''' goodshit to say the least

markes

articulate seems like an understatement

[markes]

i know what your dealing with i just got my walking papers handed to me or lack there of either way its been awhile since i last spoke to the other in question ..... i think the worst part wasnt anything thing she did to me but more how i allowed my mind to race and run while it was all going on ..... that hurt the worst ...... there were just so many thoughts being fueled by my own insecurities that to some extent it kept me from finding some kind of happiness .......

keep your head up

anyways i found your journal interesting so i added you !!!! hope you dont mind .......p.s punch mimi in the arm for me

markes <--------------------------

Re: articulate seems like an understatement

[workinclaslass]

laff..thanks for the comment..do i know you?