Might as well ask heaven what it sees.

[xiii13thirteen]

Comments

[aposak]

I find it odd that guys in general are pegged as cheating bastards, but in my experience it's the women who screw around most of the time. I guess find fault in someone else in what you hate the most about yourself

[xiii13thirteen]

Well, cheaters are about evenly represented among the genders in my experience, but I understand that it seems to generalize around males and that is really sad and a false stereotype. A man despite his amount of physical attraction (say it were high) does not have the opportunities for potential partners that a woman has. It atleast seems that way to me. Women tend to be subject to lots of sexual advances and flirtation as it is the males role to initiate such things. Women seldom will make interest known or advance on men single or otherwise as they feel it isn't their role in society to do so. If there is infidelity from a man's side it is usually because he is a smarmy bastard with a wondering eye. Cheating on the female side seems common the result of the buffet of compliments thrown their direction and the good feelings the attention creates. The other guy in my experiences has been a "bad boy" of sorts and their demeanor creates this illusion of adventure that is appealing. Unfornuately, it seems that their nature isn't calmed

see, that doesn't fit

[aposak]

Well, I seem to have a sort of bad-boy appeal, but I've never been able to captialize on that. Perhaps I'm not bad enough. I need to get a few tattoos and do some hard time in the pen. That should get me laid a lot! =)

Re: see, that doesn't fit

[xiii13thirteen]

Yes, but I like you nice Andy so stay that way. Plus going to the pen will get you laid, but likely not in the way you'd find pleasurable.

[glaswegian_took]

boy oh boy! I can't wait to find out what happens! ;D

[xiii13thirteen]

Yeah, I know alot of this right now seems more of a note of names and timeline, but it'll link up with the present as it will create a background to compare. Alot of what makes up "us" and the positive things I'm about to "smooze" about has to do with the emotional and mental aspects associated with the physical acts. Looking inside the machine as it were, but I'm sure I'll try to touch on a bit of everything.

[eeyoreizgloomy]

wow. 1999? really? hmm :}

[xiii13thirteen]

Yes, I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19. You and Nick beat me to that one. If I said anything contrary to that in my teens I was lying or something. Unless you knocked me out and had your way with me in which case that was rape and I don't consider that applicable.

[eeyoreizgloomy]

though i had considered it often in my youth, i never did act on my impulse to take you by force.

[fritzling]

well... looking foward to more. *nods*

[xiii13thirteen]

Of course, you were present at the beginning of this relationship and I can see where your interests lay. Things have been so wonderful. I thank every element that brought it about. Yourself heavily included.

[fritzling]

I'm just glad that things have turned out as wonderful as they have. I'm so very glad your you both.

[closetdiva]

you make me giggle a lot.