A lot has happened since Gwy took is last breath on January 6, early in the morning.

Today is Lil Ben's 14th birthday.  The boy is 6'6", not so "lil"

I can still be found at mistletoeelf , and I am working on monitoring his various e-mail accounts and hopefully closing some soon.

In case you haven't been to my site recently, I have a new Beau, who already ( Read more... )

My darling and soulmate took his last breath for this lifetime at 2:07am on January 6 ( Read more... )

This is his wife,
It is not going well,

Best case senario is Hospice.

We are waiting for breathing tube removal from post surgery (and a little oops) from Thursday.

Sorry for the brief update, but I thought it only fair to let you all know.

Had more surgery yesterday... And frankly I had felt more trepidatious about it than any I had had so far. I was genuinely worried for the first time that I wouldn't make it. I not only made it, but felt better than I had in a long time! Basically what happened is a long story:

I had a post-op hernia from gall bladder removal back last August. My ( Read more... )

 Still !

 Still

A friend across the sea. A touchstone in a world I have only dreamed about. A brother in our common fight. A fallen comrade who stood beside me in spirit, sharing joys and triumphs, as well as comfort in the dark. Reach now, Frank, for the comfort of that good night. Good bye friend. 

It was six months ago today, my best friend became my wife. It only took me 25 years to get her to say 'yes.'  For those who don't know, I am referring to 
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These are the top 106 books most often marked as "unread" by LibraryThing’s users. As in, they sit on the shelf to make you look smart or well-rounded. Bold the ones you've read, italicize the ones you own but have not read.

Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell
Anna Karenina
Crime and Punishment
Catch-22 good movie too
One Hundred Years of Solitude
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