I've mentioned these things so many times before that I'm really not surprised they keep happening to me. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy
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I am really sorry Ty, from what I could tell you seemed very happy. I don't know if I know you well enough to actually comment honestly on alot of things you said... but maybe you are choosing women you subconsciously know will shatter your heart, maybe the common factor isn't so much you as it is your choices... I have no idea. If you weren't a man... and a jew... I would do yah =P Cheers. Orion.
Yeah, one of the things I'd say is along the lines of what Orion stated; it's not necessarily a failing in you, but rather a matter of compatibility. You're not the only factor in a relationship. Trust me, I know about picking women who are non-compatible, and that's a rough road to ride down
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Not really. I agree with Matt tho, you do have a tendency to jump full bore into these things. I'm not saying its a bad thing, because its not, but you have to realize that some people just aren't looking for the same thing you are. When you do find that someone (and you will), then falling headlong will be ok, cause you're gonna have some falling with you.
"Don't cry because its over, smile because it happened" - Anon
I havent known you for that long- and we havent talked that much. When I read the post I was thinking that women are people. I know that I dont always want people to buy me things, or tell me sweet things. We're just like boys, except prettier, and smaller, but that doesnt mean that we cant take care of ourselves. Any useful ancedotes I'd give makes me seem like a bitch. Sorry.
That's odd, since I remember a certain someone breaking up with a certain someone else over the gooddamn phone. (At least it wasn't by email, but sheesh)
I have no advice. I have fucked up bad in the past. I have three exs I can't stand looking at and one person whom I would have done anything for leave because I was getting to emotionally involved. The only reason Matt and I have been together so long is because even when we fight (holy crap do we fight sometimes), there is the unspoken understanding that we are just people. I am not better then him and he is not better than me.
I know it sounds corny, but you have to like yourself before you can consider liking someone else. (Hmm... I guess that was advice. Sorry.)
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I don't know if I know you well enough to actually comment honestly on alot of things you said... but maybe you are choosing women you subconsciously know will shatter your heart, maybe the common factor isn't so much you as it is your choices... I have no idea.
If you weren't a man... and a jew... I would do yah =P
Cheers. Orion.
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"Don't cry because its over, smile because it happened" - Anon
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I have no advice. I have fucked up bad in the past. I have three exs I can't stand looking at and one person whom I would have done anything for leave because I was getting to emotionally involved. The only reason Matt and I have been together so long is because even when we fight (holy crap do we fight sometimes), there is the unspoken understanding that we are just people. I am not better then him and he is not better than me.
I know it sounds corny, but you have to like yourself before you can consider liking someone else. (Hmm... I guess that was advice. Sorry.)
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