So I am thinking of participating in the Gay Games in July 2006 in Chicago. I will go as part of the team representing Boston and will participate in 10-pin bowling.

It's going to be a lot of fun I think. I am so excited. Anybody want to sponsor me?

http://www.gaygameschicago.org

Tuesday October 11, 2005 was National Coming Out Day and for whatever reason I felt empowered to do something about the fact that I have been feeling stifled at work because I am not out to the general population there. I have viewed coming out at work as sort of the last hurdle that I needed to cross in the process of coming out. Friends I have ( Read more... )

So I have been thinking about something: I need a checklist. Hey, I am a pilot so checklists are not new to me. As an engineer I like to have some form of structure and have the ability to see things at a glance ( Read more... )

So Mike wanted to break up and I let him. He calls me up on Sunday morning to say that he wanted to know how I was doing and that I was OK. I did not return his call. He called again in the evening to say pretty much the same thing and that he was worried about me. Again I ignored him. I got an email this morning from him in which he said:

Hi ( Read more... )

I was just reading shayan 's post about his feelings about relationships and it comes at just the right time because I just got dumped this evening.  Once again I did not see it coming.

Three days before Thanksgiving last year my previous ex broke up with me the evening after we got back from a weekend in San Francisco.  Everything as far as I could tell ( Read more... )

New for those of you in Singapore!! I am going to be home this Xmas ( Read more... )

One day when the teacher walked to the black board, she noticed someone handwritten the word 'penis' in tiny small letters. She turned around, scanned the class looking for the guilty face. Finding none, she quickly erased it, and began her class. The next day she went into the room, and she saw, in larger letters, the word 'penis' again on the ( Read more... )

One year ago I went to my first Pride here in Boston. It was while I was walking through the carnival atmosphere that I contemplated my life as it stood then. I was living in Marlborough, which is in the middle of nowhere and my singleness was beginning to wear me down. Many of my friends in Worcester were graduating and moving away. Even the ( Read more... )

1900 Singapore time ( Read more... )

I am going home!! Yes, to Singapore, for two weeks. I get there at about 11:50pm on the 19th of Dec and will be back in the US on the 2nd of Jan. While I am there I am going to fly over to Perth to visit my best friend for a few days. I've never been to Perth so it should be a good time. For those of you who are in the East Coast and are ( Read more... )