1. i really shouldn't be back here.
   
   
2. i probably won't be, for long.
   
   
3. justaskfirst, dude, i tried to comment on your journal but it wasn't having it.
   
   
4. anybody want me to make icons for them? i have a spare seven minutes and thirty seconds a day and i desperately need to fill that time slot.
   
   
5. do you think i'd get anywhere if i called the career counseling ( Read more... )

My girlfriend has a friend who trained in a BDSM house on another continent. This isn't some bullshit fantasy "Marketplace" fish story; it's a real place with an address and contacts and everything, which I could get with two phone calls ( Read more... )

Guess what I found out? Our new (eh, new = six months now) lady friend is a sadist. We discovered this together. As previously mentioned, she had almost exclusively subbed or bottomed before being with us; I think I made it easy to try on her top-self because I am the epitome of the sub-cliche: 100% assertive in "real life", 100% sub behind ( Read more... )

Boy howdy, I've been away for a while. Here's a recap of what you missed in the last four months:

1. Our last "playmate" seems to have turned into our full-time girlfriend
   
2. I abandoned any hope of living in a real power exchange dynamic, and thusly abandoned this journal;
   
3. I got a huge new tattoo but you can't see it, nyah-nyah.

That's about it, ( Read more... )

I think that Jude Law would make a better dom than Johnny Depp.

I'm falling for this one, too.

Our new playmate's been over more often than not in the last week or so. There's a very different feel with this new person than with the last we were with...I don't think of the new one as "my girlfriend" (as, again, I did with the former) but I don't think I have the energy (or the tact) to try to explain that further so I'm going to leave that ( Read more... )

I seem to have become slightly addicted to making LJ icons. I didn't mean to. It just happened. I posted this batch to sinful_graphics (pretend that's a community link) but I'm putting it here, too, in case any of you feel like swiping 'em.

The usage guidelines are under the cut, too, but they're easy...

( ...just like me. )

I need a new word ( Read more... )

1. If you have a history of syncope, heart trouble, fainting, seizures or any other similar condition, it's best that you NOT engage in breath play at all, and certainly not at a play party. Not only will it be extremely unpleasant for you should something go wrong, but you also leave the rest of us in the very awkward position of having to deal ( Read more... )