...that an experiment had been done where they hook gay and straight men and women up to an fMRI (measuring brain activity) and focus on the area of the brain that denotes arousal. They then showed pictures of nude men and women to all 4 groups and watched the response. The people they used in the study all claimed to be only attracted to one sex. ( Read more... )

Sometimes it seems as though the more I need to write on here the busier I get, and the longer it takes me to be able to actually do it! Last weekend was eventful in many ways, but before I get into it I wanted to say a great big THANKS! to all the people who have read and commented on my blog. I really want to respond personally to each post, but ( Read more... )

So obviously I was in a bit of a mood for my last two posts. I spent some time last night with a good girlfriend and reminded myself that I have a life outside of my relationship. If Adam and I stay together through a transformation I do hope I dont lose any friends... I would not expect any of my good friends to take issue, but sometimes you ( Read more... )

As I have wandered the vast reaches of cyberspace, seeking information and stories to help me on my journey, I have come across so much positive information, so much to encourage me that love can prevail, that stereotypes can be defeated, that I can be happy. But occasionally I find information that makes me uneasy at best. I will give you the ( Read more... )

After a positively blissful 5 days in a row, I have kind of crashed a bit. Every time I start to get depressed I wonder if it is really me that is depressed, or Adam. I have never been the type to get depressed often, though it has happened a few times through the years, but Adam seems depressed at least half the time... He tries to hide it I think ( Read more... )

For friends and family of transgenders the pronoun switch is often one of the more difficult aspects of transitioning ( Read more... )

I feel like I should start this blog with some lengthy explanation, tell the whole story, or something. Instead I am going to write about last weekend. Maybe one of these days I will get around to filling you in, or maybe if I keep this up explanations wont be necessary and the story will fill itself out ( Read more... )