I'm a submissive lesbian in northern california and a newbie, looking for some tips on the lifestyle and meeting people?

Have you ever heard of the phrase, motto, or warning:

"Never own a slave who buys her own collar." ????

If so, please let me know what it means... please.

This is not my writing. This is something that I found on the net, through another submissive friend of mine, and I have yet to find someone to attribute credit to.
It touched me and so I hope that it touches you... or, maybe, helps you in your journey.

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