Comments | trytoimagineme: Is time real?

trytoimagineme

Is time real?

Jun 16, 2004 00:47

I have someone who is very dear to my heart in town right now. I would love to spend a lot of time with her, but with her staying with her family and my busy schedule I think it I will be minimal. We will see though, I honestly can’t wait to see her smile ( Read more... )

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wufeidragon June 16 2004, 00:50:23 UTC

All of her friends probably won't hate you... probably. If you let her down easy, they won't, at least, but a friendship with her will be all but entirely out of the question. Give her a little while and then maybe approach a friendship.

trytoimagineme June 16 2004, 08:52:59 UTC

I know one of her friends will for sure! I am glad it aint series yet though, but she has grasped on a little more then i expected, we will see..........

miss_eagle_eye June 16 2004, 09:14:15 UTC

Last night, when my roommate got home and pulled the blinds in his room when I was half asleep, I screamed. Thanks for making me watch that scary movie.
Always,
Space Cadet Love Consultant at your service...

trytoimagineme June 16 2004, 10:33:50 UTC

Watching that movie a second time i noticed a few new things that were frightening. That movie kind of plays into the whole Space Cadet Love Consultant thing. Maybe when you become an asternaunt you can help out the aliens with their love lives, what was up with their backs by the way???

chira June 16 2004, 10:01:47 UTC

1. so busy you are.
2. you bad guy! doesn't that come naturally hahaha totally kidding.
3. HOORAY for new cars!
4. Tell her that you value her friendship and think that would be best.

trytoimagineme June 16 2004, 10:37:49 UTC

You started that off like you were Yoda or something. I think it does come naturally, but only with certain people. I haven't bought the car yet, i am almost as picky with my cars i am with woman, and I think she is going to be crushed, partly because I have allowed her to get to know me so easily.... :+(

glittering_kat June 16 2004, 13:48:54 UTC

One thing to remember is to not be too gentle. I know this sounds like the opposite of what you would think, but I have learned (too many times) that people only hear what you are saying when you are saying what they want to hear. As brutally honest as you can be using words that aren't mean or rude is probably the best way to go, for you and for her.

Speak in a gentle voice. Be honest. Don't be in too intimate of a setting or too crowded of a setting. Make it short and sweet -- and by that I mean just have somewhere to go at a reasonable time so that you both don't hurt yourselves more by going over it and over it and over it.

Maybe I should be a breakup counselor. Now that's just plain sad.

trytoimagineme June 16 2004, 14:00:36 UTC

Oh we are not together but i think she feels like we kind of our, which makes me upset in a way. My problem is i don't mind being casual, but i cannot see myself with her at ALL!

trytoimagineme June 16 2004, 17:28:19 UTC

What about an email???

glittering_kat June 16 2004, 19:42:57 UTC

Depends on your relationship. But in my opinion, if you have been sexual, you need to be a gentleman and talk to her in person.