ok, so i'm kinda sorta seeing this guy, i dont know, its really complicated. so he said he just wants to be friends for right now cuz we just started hanging out, which is understandable cuz you dont want to rush into anything too quickly. but like the first night we started hanging out, we started making out, and this was even before he got ( Read more... )

23 Best Things to Say to a Depressed Person:

1. "I love you!"

2. "I care"

3. "You're not alone in this"

4. "I'm not going to leave/abandon you"

5. "Do you want a hug?"

6. "I love you (if you mean it)."

7. "It will pass, we can ride it out together."

8. "When all this is over, I'll still be here (if you mean it) and so will you."

9. "Don't say ( Read more... )

I haven't been in here in awhile...I haven't even been logged on in about a year.But, recently my life went into a tailspin and I need a little help sussing put what I should do or not do or what to think about things. So let me start at the begining of the week from hell ( Read more... )

ok, so there is this guy right? and i used to like him sometime last year and last semester. but then i became less interested as the days went by. well the other night we hung out and it was going good for a while, i didn't want anything to come out of it, and then all of a sudden we started making out. i didn't want that to happen, but i also ( Read more... )

This is from a sheet I received yesterday from my 6- week Day Treatment Programme:

One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said,

"My son, the battle is between 2 *wolves* inside us all.

One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, inferiority, lies, false pride, greed, arrogance,  ( Read more... )

I'm moving to France soon with my girlfriend who's going to be attending school there. Everything would be much easier if i could just get a work visa, and possible source of some income, before i go. It seems like finding an online job would be the best way to do this. However, i'm having trouble sorting through all the crap and scams ( Read more... )

(found in another self-help community)
10 Tips for Managing Depression

1. Do not expect too much from yourself too soon, as this will only accentuate feelings of failure. Avoid setting difficult goals or taking on ambitious new responsibilities until you've solidly begun a structured treatment process.

2. Break large tasks into small ones, set some ( Read more... )

ok, so i'm 22 years old, i'm going away to school next semester (transfering) and my mom still treats me like i'm in high school. tonight just put the cherry on the icing (however that saying is, i'm too pissed to remember). well i was over at my friends house, it was me, kelly and christy. and its not even like they're bad people, cuz they're ( Read more... )

Ok my bf and I have been together for a year and three months. We never fight, like we've NEVER had an argument. He's loving and supportive, and caring, and kind. If everything is still this way after I graduate in one year we are planning to move in together after my first simester of college. I love him so much ( Read more... )

ok, i'll start with how i met this guy. ok, i was at this bar that was 45 mins away from my house right? and i'm online for a mechanical bull and all of a sudden i met this guy. we were talkin and all and all of a sudden we realize we were in the next town over and we were only a block or 2 away. so we swapped cell numbers and we've been ( Read more... )