I was at RnR recently and found myself in an extended conversation with someone new. Certainly kink was discussed given that the venue was explicitly kinky. We touched on what we were wearing, about the relative merits of leather and rubber and other kink attire, and about the fun of fetish modelling which she had done and which had been ( Read more... )

Is how Mistress Jadis described our last time playing on Twitter.

I had just arrived from rugby, and I had played the previous day also.  I was quite sore and tired, and I was also still wearing my strapping tape on my thighs and my left ankle.  I had left all of it on so that she could enjoy pulling it off me.  Some of my leg hair came off with it ( Read more... )

I've been on a long downward trajectory over the past six months, and just last week I finally saw my GP and got a referral to see a psychologist for depression ( Read more... )

I've noticed something ( Read more... )

I was set to play for the second time in as many days. I had managed to get on the list for MYTH, which billed itself as a party for queer unicorns or something along those lines (this really isn't my forte.)

To attend MYTH, everyone was expected to arrive with their "unicorn buddy" who would be responsible for them and vice versa. I was keen to ( Read more... )

A trip to New York means many things, but on both occasions that I have been, it has meant a trip to visit Mistress Katya and to present myself as a representative of Mistress Jadis.

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I've been having a wonderful kinky time in America and in New York in particular.  I have a lot to write about and I promise there will be a full report here, but at the moment I am just a bit overwhelmed.

I'm feeling sub drop at the moment.  The combination of coming down from the intensity of play I experienced recently and the fact that I am ( Read more... )

I flew out of Australia last week and touched down in San Francisco to be joined by Mistress Scarlette Stangata who knows the city well.

I first encountered her on the Max Fisch boards through discussing an emotionally intense I'd had with Mistress Jadis way back in 2008, and became friends. I normally don't put much stock in the idea that you can ( Read more... )

Mistress Jadis had been away for quite a while. In fact, it was probably the longest time between sessions with her since I had my first session with her.

This means that for a couple of months I didn't have access to an outlet that I had really become accustomed to having. Now I had it again and I planned to put it to good use.

( Cut for pics of some AWESOME marks )

I've been feeling quite off recently.  I've been prone to irritability and have been suffering from what I have taken to calling "compassion fatigue."

Some of this may have started with work frustrations, but in addition to feeling a lack of purpose and interest at work, I've also been missing something else.

It has been a while since I have done ( Read more... )