I was fetishwear shopping yesterday.

And I didn't buy anything.

There were plenty of things there that I thought looked fine. Plenty of leather and various and assorted kinky things were on offer and I could wear a number of them, but none of them actually interested me.

As it happens, all of the things that I have fetishised are things that other ( Read more... )

I spent last Saturday in a valley on the Central Coast running through forests and creeks and one enormous mud pit, where, true to form, I did pushups.  I finished the 10km "Mud Run" in quite reasonable time, and probably as dirty as I have ever been.


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An anecdote from my friend Mistress Scarlette came to mind at the party I was at last night.

She told me about the legion of guys following her and another domme friend of hers around at a party, none of whom were willing to take a flogging or a caning or a single tail or any discipline at all, while at the same time there were plenty of women ( Read more... )

On my last night in New York I ventured out to the suburbs (but a cool suburb I promise you) to meet Mistress Scarlette at long last (or perhaps it would be more accurate to say our vanilla alter egos met ( Read more... )

Who ever heard of staging a play party on a Sunday when everyone has to work the next day?  The New York TNG (18-35) group, that's who.

( Read more about the sordid escapades of young people in New York... )

I had been travelling through America for work recently, and after work was over I took the opportunity to have a holiday in New York, a city I have wanted to visit since I was about 8 years old (in other words, I've wanted to go to New York for about as long as I've had kinky thoughts.)

After suggesting it to Mistress Jadis who thought it would be ( Read more... )

After my last session I was chatting with Mistress Jadis and the conversation drifted on to the subject of what would happen if she stopped working professionally.

Now I should stress that there are no immediate plans for this to happen, so the subbies of Sydney can relax.  But I have been having fairly regular sessions with her for two and a half ( Read more... )

I had a session on Sunday afternoon.  It started as it always does.  The cell, the greeting footworship, the collar going around my neck, and then I went up on the bench.

And by the time I had gotten there, Mistress Jadis pointed out that I had a very satisfied look on my face.  It was true.  Nothing had "happened" per se, certainly nothing really ( Read more... )

I had a session on Tuesday with Mistress Jadis, and for the first time in a while, there was no breaking down.

It has become commonplace that at some point in the session there is too much for me to process and I wind up breaking down.  Often it's during a flogging or singletailing and the rhythm of things builds up to a point beyond what my head ( Read more... )

... of my kink.

I was away for work for most of the last month and one night I found myself thinking about why I enjoy kink, and more specifically, why I enjoy the subbie side of kink.

I've been kind of down on kink generally for a while compared to my earlier enthusiasm (which probably explains why I've not been posting all that much.)  Additionally ( Read more... )