I got a nice endorphin hit at the gym today, and it reminded me that I am capable of getting a physical rush from activities outside of kink.  That in itself isn't much of a revelation, but  it did get me thinking ( Read more... )

I was in Carisbrook last weekend and was hoping to have some marks to show at the Under 30s workshop I was going to afterwards.  And Mistress Jadis is pretty good at leaving marks.

From the beginning things were tough.  Sometimes it's like that, and I don't know why.

Spanking over a horse?  Tough.

Spanking over the knee?  Tough.

Being tied up and hit ( Read more... )

I'm a member of the Canberra Subs & Slaves group of Fetlife.  Recently a post went up in the group explaining that because someone had tried "misrepresenting themselves to join our group and troll for subs", they had "taken the regrettable step of removing switches from our group."

This bothered me.

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I've recently discovered Bitchy Jones's Diary.

A lot of what she writes is very amusing.

A lot of what she writes expresses things that I think but never managed to put words to.

Some of what she writes comes from a valid and sincere place but misses the point a bit.

Yes, Bitchy Jones really seems to find pro-dommes (or perhaps just aspects of the pro- ( Read more... )

A little while back Miss Lis and I were taking a car trip together whilst listening to a Masocast that had been downloaded.

There was an interview with a pro-domme who plays with subbie guys at work, and was a switch in her personal life.  She was involved with a dominant guy who knew about what she did for a living.  At first it was fine, but ( Read more... )

The thought occurred to me this week that my fatigue with the sub label has something to do with my own progression and the dynamic between the dommes I know and myself ( Read more... )

( For pics and playing and tiresome identity whinging, click here. )

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It wasn't the anal work Mistress Jadis did.  (Not something I am "into", but I have said I don't want to hold this back from her.  Apparently I have gained the title of "tightest bottom" out of all the subbies Mistress Jadis has played with.  Good news given my association with the Convicts she said with a laugh.)

It wasn't my first experience with ( Read more... )

I stumbled across a couple of stories on The Onion.

This one betrays a bit of misunderstanding of kink and is rife with stereotypes, but hey, it's satire.

( Nation's Nipples Underclamped )