polyamorous

Advice Please?

infiniteimp wrote in polyamorous May 11, 2011 13:44

Many thanks to the people who provided feedback on my thoughts on changing relationship frameworks. I come to you now in a state of high agitation and need perspective, advice and support.

My sweetie has been talking with his spouse about him and I having a relationship. I'm given to understand that she is fine with the whole concept, yet has placed ( Read more... )

Hi There

infiniteimp wrote in polyamorous May 06, 2011 08:39

I've only recently joined this com, mainly because poly is quite new to my primary and I. He has been asking himself why I would want to be poly after years of being mono, and I think he may be concerned that if I can change my mind about my relationship framework I could just as easily change my mind about being in a relationship with him.

So I sat ( Read more... )

relationship tips

How safe is safe?

fishes8 wrote in polyamorous Oct 04, 2010 16:42

My question: In the poly community, what is safe sex to you? What is okay, what is not and what is negotiable?

Background: My poly partner after 5 years are both suddenly playing. I have one secondary and she has 3 lovers, one of which could become a secondary. I expect the circle to get bigger as well as sharing lovers. One of the new lovers ( ( Read more... )

Looking for Interviews with Polyamorous Women

swheeler11 wrote in polyamorous Oct 03, 2010 21:24

Have you been or are you currently in a consensual relationship with more than one partner, where all partners know about each other? Would you describe yourself or your relationship as polyamorous ( Read more... )

Attempt to Start Discussion

leora wrote in polyamorous Sep 30, 2010 13:56

I admit it, this community is often quite dull. I keep thinking, I should post something interesting here, and then I think about my relationships and nothing that anyone who doesn't know me would want to hear or discuss comes to mind. I have amusing little relationship moments sometimes, but then I think, would that really be amusing to others ( Read more... )

life lessons, relationship tips

Life, The Universe and Everything

finneganthepoet wrote in polyamorous Sep 30, 2010 03:29

Greetings ( Read more... )

UK Polyday

skibbley wrote in polyamorous Sep 13, 2010 15:16

For those in range of UK, the next UK Polyday will be in Bristol on 20th November.
See: http://imakeawesome.co.uk/polyday/
A one-day event held in Bristol for everyone who knows that happy and honest relationships don't have to be monogamous, Polyday combines a day of discussions and ( Read more... )

Coming out

luckybear86 wrote in polyamorous Sep 02, 2010 00:55

It has almost been a year since my husband and I starting seeing our girlfriend. We all live together. I love them both so much I can't believe it sometimes. I have came out to everyone but my parents. My parents are divorced and have been for most of my life. My mom is the one person I have be able to tell everything to and she has accepted me ( Read more... )

Getting Out

polyblue wrote in polyamorous Aug 27, 2010 12:37

No, I don't mean getting out of your relationship--I mean getting out of the closet! I recently wrote an article on coming out of the poly closet, but there is still so much more to say. The different levels of being out, who to come out to, why to come out and why to stay in the closet. But sometimes coming out poly also means coming out bisexual ( Read more... )

Sharing

polyblue wrote in polyamorous Aug 24, 2010 21:41

Still in the early stages of my polyamorous relationship, I have to say that one of my favorite things to do is to sit on the couch, watching a movie, between my husband and my girlfriend. I feel like I am literally surrounded by love and it just gives me the warm fuzzies all over! Second-best would probably be when the three of us all go out ( Read more... )